How are you even real?
im so bad at being friends with people in relationships
not having the option of being able to fall in love with them freely and then make them mine sucksit’s selfish but i like my options
Junot Díaz & Peter Sagal: Immigrants, Masculinity, Nerds, & Art
"Think about if white folks just shut the fuck up for one day."
"Hitler would be very pleased with POC’s dating habits."
"Guys, forget it. Save your clapping for your fucked up politicians."
Listen, I could be here all day quoting him. Just watch.
I have to pass this on with a Jim Halpert quote: “Well, you always left me satisfied and smiling, so…”
this was definitely worth watching.
Actress Lupita Nyong’o
Photos: Mario Anzuoni
i need a man to be emotionally mature enough to FULLY participate in a sexual experience. I’m through babysitting these emotionally under developed men. my body is not a daycare center so grow up.
I’m no longer willing to drain myself and release energy for you to absorb when you’re not spiritually ready to notice or reciprocate it. Im not going to continue to operate on a lower frequency to accommodate you while i desperately try to enjoy this mildly stimulating experience that only ignites my lowest chakra.
what men have to realize is, being a “real” man about handling sex isn’t just about having “good dick”. being a man about sex is not something that can be explained in words. you gotta matriculate through your own spiritual journey and be able to fulfill yourself on that level before you can even dream of making me climax.
this is something taught through culture practice. its embedded in the lifestyle. its in the way you look at life and everything that life encompasses. you cant just look at sex with me as just some physical act separate from the rest of the universe. we are exchanging precious energy. an omnipresent life force manifesting itself in our interaction. you not just tryna hit my spot, you should be trying to reach god consciousness when you become me and i become you.
this is why a lot of women have never climaxed and to be honest, most of yall men haven’t either.
my body is not a daycare, so please, grow up.
reblogging myself cuz i love how i write lol
is it just me, or does this animation have racial implications? racism is tricky when it comes to the subconscious.
no one is ‘simply white’ to be simply white is to historically erase everything white society has done in the past and continue to live off today. and what’s simply white? that sounds like a laundry detergent.
good for you. for poc however, it doesn’t matter whether we choose to assume the white person in front of is good/bad, there’s still gonna be a society+system+culture of whiteness, white supremacy, and racism that breaks us down physically, emotionally and psychologically every day. we can’t run from it even when we try to be good people. giving white people the benefit of the doubt is something all people are conditioned to do, even poc. we’re constantly let down by all the white people that can be using their privilege and power to help other poc yet they waste it in trying to stop us or shut us down and make sure they keep those powers, privileges, security and comfort. so excuse poc if they stop giving yall the benefit of the doubt. and please quit trying to equalize the oppression poc go through with racism with the comments poc say about white people. it will never be the same. I’m going to continue to assume most white people are bad because of their race until I see some actual systematic changes and not microchanges in small blogospheres. I’d rather save myself the trouble of possibly dealing with another racist or overall oppressive and shitty white person because unlike yall, we are so pervasively subjected to these oppressive systems that we don’t have the luxury of saying “I will no longer assume this person wants to cause me harm in some way be it emotional, physical, or psychological”. To me at this point in time, white people are the devil. Idk maybe that mindset will change decades from now and we have a more diverse, multicultural and accepting society that doesn’t do what it does to millions of poc today. But for now and the safety of my own existence, I’ll assume yall are the worst.